Sunday, February 14, 2010

Happy Day of LOVE!!

Hello world... it is that day again, the day some people love, some people dread, and some people think is all about consumerism! That's right it is Valentines day!!! I agree that there is a huge part of this day that has become about consumerism. "My partner got me this, what did your partner get you?" "What should I get my partner, what if my gift is more/less than theirs?"

Another common theme on this day might be: "I don't have a partner, I am so alone- I hate Valentines Day and all those people in love!!" So, on a day like today we must ask... What Would St. Valentine Do? But since I cannot ask him, nor do I know much about him at all there seems to be a dead end. Valentine's Day, aside from the commercialism and our societies desperation around defining their self-worth and identity on whether one has a partner or not, Valentine's Day seems to be about L-O-V-E!!

We all know what love is, I hope! One can love one's parents, one's pet, one's friends, running, the mountains, tea... the list is endless really! So why has Valentine's day been restricted to romantic love only? I say get out there and do what you love with who you love!! If you love your dog, go for a walk. If you love your siblings- make dinner and a movie. If you love yourself- treat yourself! This is a day of love for crying out loud... let's take advantage of it and not be caught up in the meaningless meaning we attribute to it!! And if you have a partner- do something AWESOME together to demonstrate your love for each other perhaps even without a price tag????!!!!

Love & Respect!